Last night Mike helped me make one of my dreams come true.
That’s right. One of my dreams was to build a monster out of snow. Call me crazy, I won’t deny it. I grew up in California, the land of perpetual sunshine. Before I moved to the City I could count the number of times I’d seen snow on one hand and still have fingers left over. As a child I was a huge fan of Calvin and Hobbes and I always believed that if I had been lucky enough to live in a place with snow, I’d be the kid building wild snow scenes in the yard every day after school.
Then we moved to the City and it was three years before we got enough snow, enough sticky snow, to build anything. I started small and with the help of three little girls who’d never built a snowman before:
A few days later, Adam and I got a little more advanced. But then, Adam has a lot of snowman-making experience:
Last night I got home from work around five and dragged Michael from his warm nest in front of the computer to the park around the corner. It was perfect snowman-making weather and I was determined to take advantage of it.
Warm, still, calm, quiet. Just Mike and I, mittens full of snow, snow up to our knees, throwing ideas around like snowballs. ”How about a tank?” ”Ah! His tail looks great! How’d you do that?” ”What if he’s tromping a car under his toes?” ”Here, try this for the arms.” The sun went down and it started snowing again. People walking by pointed and exclaimed, snapped photos. It was a perfectly perfect evening.
Tips for Happy Couples, #2
Cultivate common interests After the passion settles down, it’s common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don’t minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.